Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Influencers set standards for others to emulate

This morning, I am pondering a question posed by Sarah Evans. What does it mean to be an "influencer" in 2009?

True influencers possess the following attributes:
  1. They are knowledgeable in their respective fields.
  2. They are able to see a wider perspective of interconnections, interdependencies and possibilities across many disciplines.
  3. They are willing to take risks to expand their knowledge and make good things happen.
  4. They inspire other people to be their best.
  5. They are sincere.

Now for some context:

Being knowledgeable in one's field is undeniably important, but it is not the only component needed to be influential. Thus, my second point: A well-rounded person will be far more influential than someone who focuses narrowly one area of expertise. We live in a complex world. No single tool, technology or body of knowledge will address the challenges that stand before us. The world sorely needs people who can help others connect between and amongst each other, making the ability to interrelate among professions, cultures and people a critically-needed skill. This skill requires the guts (my third point) to initiate action and a contagious spirit of possibility (my fourth point). However, points no. 3 and 4 must always be underscored by point no. 5: utter sincerity. I have witnessed true sincerity in action a few times in my professional life, and the results are profound. I have seen people turn around wounded, dispirited organizations into productive, enjoyable places to work.

To provide a global example of an influencer who embodies all of the attributes outlined above, consider a point-by-point snapshot of anthropologist and humanitarian Jane Goodall:

1. Dr. Goodall conducted ground-breaking research in the field of primatology, forever changing how we view and study primates and ourselves.

2. She clearly sees how hunger, disease and poverty as well as lack of infrastructure, education and health care affect people, causing them to destroy the few remaining habitats for chimpanzees through deforestation and the brutal bush meat trade. In response, she has developed and devoted her entire life to addressing the dire needs of impoverished humans while continuing to advocate for chimpanzees.

3. Dr. Goodall travels the globe well over 300 days a year to spread her message and promote positive changes. It is exhausting work. After any given lecture, she will stay for hours to sign books and connect with the many people who adore her. She knows that she must give of herself to help others make the changes required to nurture our planet back to health.

4. Dr. Goodall knows that the future of our world depends on educating young people to care for the planet--see her Roots and Shoots movement--and showing anyone willing to listen the many things we can each do to enact changes. She makes the impossible seem possible and encourages people to alter unsustainable patterns of consumption and live better lives. See her reasons for hope as an example.

5. Jane Goodall is completely unassuming and unpretentious. Yet she has established herself as a central figure in anthropology, humanitarianism, resource management, and far more. To use a cliche, she leads by example.

Influencing is not simply about being vocal or visible or having one's finger on the pulse of a new trend. A person cannot declare him or herself an influencer. To truly influence in 2009 (or any year, for that matter) requires a heartfelt purpose that inspires action in others. Such people are memorable and enduring, and we desperately need them.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

We interrupt this blog to bring you...


...my new favorite recipe!

Heidi's Bucket 'o Black Bean and Orzo Salad

1 cup orzo, cooked
1/2 cup canned black beans, rinsed and drained
1 cup cherry tomatoes, sliced
1 cup cucumber, sliced and cut into bite-size pieces
fresh, chopped cilantro to taste (I used 1/4 cup)
diced onion to taste (I used 1/8 cup)
lime juice to taste (I used 1/4 cup)
2 T. any salad dressing (I used a
fat-free Italian dressing)
salt and pepper to taste


Mix it up.
Eat it up.
Yum.

Weight Watchers info: The entire recipe above calculates to 6 points. Makes 2 servings as a side dish (3 points each) or one big lunch (6 points).

Sorry, I was so hungry that I ate it all up before I remembered to take a picture of it.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Five things about being a parent that nobody tells you


1. You stop noticing when you are covered in food, crumbs and drool. It's not that you don't care about it, it's just that you can't stop to change your clothes every couple of hours.


2. Newborns can power-poop across the room. It really is quite impressive.


3. You somehow adapt to sleep deprivation. You still fantasize about a complete night's sleep, but you learn how to deal with the sleep you get.


4. No matter how much you love your job, going back to work at the end of maternity leave is a Big, BIG Deal.


5. There is absolutely no better feeling in the whole, wide WORLD than snuggling with your baby as they sleep curled against your body. They feel soooo good and they smell heavenly. Inhale. Savor. Repeat.

Friday, April 24, 2009

You know you're doing your job when...

...your 3 year-old announces that he is mad at you because you won't let him join the army.

...your 11 month-old sounds like an angry, wet cat because you took away the plastic bag that she wanted to suck on.

...you're so tired you can't think of anything else to post!

Monday, March 30, 2009

Can't believe it has been so long since I wrote a new blog post!

Random thoughts:
  • Feeling grateful for friendships both old and new.

Will-isms from the past week:
  • He can take off his pants, remove a wet diaper and throw it in the garbage, get a pull-up from the drawer and put it on, and get dressed again all by himself (even if the pants are inside out and backwords when he puts them back on). But he does not want to stop using diapers and become fully potty-trained.
  • For reasons I have yet to understand, he slept with a matchbox car inside his sock on his foot one night last week.
  • The story that he told while painting the other day: This picture is of my friend Coconut. He lives in an apartment building. His mom's name is Kevin. (When I asked him the name of Coconut's other mom, the answer was "Mevin.")

I like to play with my kids, but I confess that I don't enjoy playing hide and seek. In other domestic news, I thought I was ready for Will to break the pacifier habit, but I discovered during a screaming fit (Will, not me) at midnight that I am not. Do these things make me a bad mom?

Gwendolyn:
OMG I love my baby girl. She is such a little honey. She spent the week cruising along furniture, making motorboat sounds with her lips and proving that she can be a good napper when she wants to!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Pink

I have a love-hate relationship with the color pink. On the one hand, it's ubiquitous. Before G was even born, I was already seeking other colors when I shopped for her. On the other hand, she's just so darn cute in it - especially that oh-so-light petal pink. You should have seen her the other day. She looked like a little pink puffball in the velour hoodie and matching pants that she was wearing. It's already hard enough to put her down, but that day it was next to impossible, she was that cuddly.